Hi
We have a 3.2 yo dd1 and a week old dd2. We brought the baby home and dd1 has been amazing with her - loves to kiss and stroke and cuddle her and is enchanted with her. However, her own behaviour has seriously deteriorated and I would like some advice please.
My dh has taken 2 weeks paternity leave and, as I am bf on demand, he is basically doing what I was doing during the last few weeks of maternity leave - nursery run etc. Dd1 has nursery every morning and we are trying to keep things as normal as possible for her. But obviously, things have changed - I can't come running the second she wants me if I'm feeding and I'm also really tired from being up a lot in the night.
We are trying to give her lots of attention / telling her how much we love her etc, but she is becoming a bit of a control freak - not that way daddy / stand over here - no, not over there, over here / I want it like this / not now / leave me alone etc - and stalling furiously first thing in the morning when we need to get her out (milk / teeth / get dressed / eat breakfast) and before bed - last night we literally had to hold her down to get her into her pjs as she had stalled for half an hour and was totally overtired and obnoxious. (She calmed down soon after with a cuddle from me).
I am very strict with her generally (though very loving) - she knows if I say no, I mean it. Dh, slightly less strict - she can get away with more though she gets more upset if he counts time out than if I do as he doesn't do it so much.
I know why she's doing it all - I just wondered if anyone had any tips or suggestions to help us get through this bit. Thanks.
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