Excuses to start - I have two DDs, aged 2 and almost 4. a DH who works long hours. And no family support.
But. I yell. Too much. Particularly at the older daughter.
Today I thought it would be a lovely thing to take them to the park as it's such a nice day. But I ended up really shouting at my eldest to the extent that two nearby mums looked really shocked and I thought one of them was going to come over.
I was trying to get youngest in a sling. I asked eldest to grab a bit and help me. I asked three times getting louder and more of a bitch each time. Then finally yelled it so loud the whole park must have heard. If I had seen another mum do that I probably would have judged and felt sorry for the little girl on the receiving end.
Dd just sighed, said alright and grabbed the bit of sling for me. She is probably used to me being a shouty cow.
But that's not how I want to be. I can see I've been yelling more and more and it's not making any of us any happier. Not making her listen any better. So I am going to stop
I am posting here - partly in hope that there will be others who are in the same boat. Or people with (kind!) advice to give. But also I hope if I've written it down somewhere I might stick to it.
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Right! I'm going to challenge myself to a whole month of no yelling
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ScottishInSwitzerland · 24/02/2014 20:38
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