Would appreciate some help with this, can't quite think my way through it alone. DS1 (just 3, but quite mature in language/understanding) visited the paediatrician at the hospital last week, for a relatively minor issue (ok, so it's a probable haemorrhoid ). It all went fine and he was pretty un-fazed by it - even the trickier bits eg lying on his side with legs pulled up so she could examine the area in question. From his point of view it was a good outing as they had loads of toys there, including a fantastic big wooden pirate ship that we played on together (what? It was fun! ).
However, she wants us to return next Monday morning so he can have some blood taken - just for completeness and to rule out more serious underlying issues. I think this could potentially be more traumatic for him as he will need to have some numbing cream applied to the back of his hand, keep it on for half an hour and then have the blood taken, with the inevitable needles and seeing the blood come out etc etc.
I'm all for keeping these sorts of things low key and upbeat, which seemed to work fine last time (we just explained, matter of factly, that we needed to go and see a special doctor as DS sometimes has blood come out of his bottom after he does a poo, and blood shouldn't really come out of people's bottoms, but it's ok because the doctor will help us stop it coming out). Equally, I'm sure the nurses will be past masters at this business and will see him right. However, I feel I need to try and explain the whole thing to him somehow, before we go. How do I best prepare a 3yo for this experience?
At present he's only expressed a wish to go back and play on the excellent pirate ship again, and I've said I might possibly take him soon but only if he's very very good - mean Mama...
There is the added complication that I will have 8 week old DS2 in tow, so while he will hopefully co operate and sleep through the whole thing just as he did last time, there is the distinct possibility that he will be screaming the place down - I'm reasonably comfortable with parking him in the corner for five minutes and letting him get on with it, but it will undoubtedly raise the general stress levels and mean I won't be entirely focused on helping DS1, as I'd like.
Unfortunately there is no one else who can come with us to help take care of either child - DH needs to be at work and we don't have any other family close enough by.
Any advice appreciated. TIA.
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How to prepare DS for having blood taken?
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puntasticusername · 15/02/2014 23:29
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