DD 21 months is going through a really destructive phase and I feel like all I do is tell her off.
She does things like break her toys, draws on walls and tries to rip the wallpaper off, tears her books and the sleeves out of DVDs. When she does things like this I tell her no which results in an almighty tantrum and she even starts to hit herself and pull her own hair with frustration.
I take her out every day and plan fun things to do at home so she isnt bored - for example yesterday we went to the park and today we went for a walk to the shops, I bought her a new toy truck from the charity shop as she is obsessed with cars/trucks at the minute
After dinner she followed me into the kitchen while I was clearing the dishes, she went straight into the cupboard and emptied a full box of rice crispies all over the floor.
I told her off again and put her into the living room while I cleared up the mess, could hear her crying. When I finished I went into her and she was fast asleep in the middle of the carpet.
I just feel so awful about it that she had fell asleep while she was crying - she hadnt brushed her teeth, had her bedtime milk or a cuddle like we usually do. I know it sounds like a small thing to be worrying about but I just feel like I am constantly being 'mean' to DD by telling her off. When she isnt being destructive or having a tantrum she is such an amazing, loving toddler.
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How to deal with destructive toddler - feel like worlds worst mum
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RaspberryTea · 13/01/2014 18:48
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