I have posted before with numerous calm queries but ARGH! I am at my wits end.
DD1 refuses all sleep and so it is a constant battle to get her to rest. She also plays up at mealtimes too and refuses food unless sort of tricked into eating some.
The past 36 hours have looked like this:
5.30am Up for the day (after wakings at 11.30 and 2.30). BF milk.
Lovely cheerful morning play & breakfast
9 am 45 min nap. BF to sleep and cuddled, took about half an hour.
1.30pm Taken upstairs for nap. BF to almost sleep then awake again,
scratching, pinching, screaming. Keeps standing up in cot.
Screams if left in room, screams if held (in 'baby rocking'
hold). Lots of v sad tears.
2pm Eventually to sleep after second round of BF
3.15pm Awake in good mood and lovely afternoon trip out to ducks
and walking practice at home
5.30pm Supper
6.30pm Bath & stories. BF to almost sleep then awake again,
scratching, pinching, screaming. Keeps standing up in cot.
Screams if left in room, screams if held (in 'baby rocking'
hold). Lots of v sad tears. Gave baby Nurofen as she does
have a cold at the mo.
7.30-8 Asleep after second (or even third) round of BF
5.30am Up for the day (after wakings at 11.30 and 2.30). BF milk.
Lovely cheerful morning play & breakfast
9am 45 min nap. BF to sleep and cuddled. Quite quick and happy
today
1.30pm Taken upstairs for nap. BF to almost sleep then awake again,
scratching, pinching, screaming. Keeps standing up in cot.
Screams if left in room, screams if held (in 'baby rocking'
hold). Lots of v sad tears.
2pm Eventually to sleep after second round of BF
HELP ME! I feel like the awful mummy as we always have such fun and she's a lovely smiley happy baby but then as soon as it is genuinely sleepy time she goes crazy. She's like a rabid cat, clawing screaming, and also such sad crying.... in the past I have let her miss naps or stay up later but it's never the answer, it only makes her more burnt out. She can look v. tired with big purple bags.... I don't know what to do. Let her stay up til she's tired? A few times I did this it resulted in nap at 4.30pm and then much later bedtime, but only still sleeping til 5.30. She isn't much better in pram or in our bed.
Should I keep forcing the naps/bedtime? I feel like I am doing that at the moment, almost like a baby guantanamo bay!Please help me, I feel so annoyed she won't eat the food I give her or sleep. She just likes BF and constant wakefulness.
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At end of tether with sleep-refusing 1 year old DD
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delilah89 · 06/11/2013 14:23
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