I am 37 week's pregnant and thus has been a very difficult pregnancy with a pro lapse disc and now pelvic dysfunction. I have a toddler who is 2.2. Currently she attends nursery for 2 full days a week which costs about 400 pounds a month. She was in 2 days while I've been in work now I am on maternity leave I feel like I should take her out of nursery it's expensive for us and we could be doing with the money. But at the moment I just dint feel I could cope 5 full days in my own. The three days I have her are difficult enough. Then when baby is born I was planning on keeping her in nursery and I feel really inadequate about that. Ifeel like I should be able to be at home with both babies.... But part of me feels like oh God that would be horrendous. I'd never cope. The guilt is eating me up now and I feel like people are judging me though no one has said anything that's just what I'm thinking. What do others do? What do people think? On top of that the nursery dc goes to is by very good and she's about to go to a different one. She loves nursery is very sociable and active. so at the moment I think I using that's an excuse to keep her in.
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