DS is in P2. P1 was very difficult for him and he didn't seem to make solid friends. He has just shown an interest in football. DH and I have been relieved as he might find out about being in a team and being part of a group. Make it easier for him to be generally included and give him all the comfort that comes with that.
Anyway he came home and said he'd been in goals. (always the least popular position as I recall) But he'd really hurt his thumb. Bent the nail back (groo). DH got him some goalie gloves as we thought, he might as well give it a go and the gloves would mean he wouldn't be put off.
All that has happened is that two of the more dominant kids (same age, same class) have got his gloves off him and he has been left standing on the sidelines .
DS doesn't tell me much about anything so it was quite something to even get this from him. I am now wondering how not to stuff things up and if there is anyway I can draw him out and find out what happened without him clamming up completely. And/Or if there is any advice I can give him beyond "well, son, it's a dog eat dog world and you've got to stand up for yourself" (I'm usually very direct and this approach has had no success with him so far)
I suppose I just see him standing on the sidelines forever not knowing why he's been left out.
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Advice needed: DS not getting to play football at playtime.
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Bigbadgladioli · 13/09/2013 16:21
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