I have a job which involves making a lot of decisions at top speed, being very organised, and doing lots of things very quickly and at once. It can be pretty high stress, and I work with people who are all very bright, switched on and committed.
When I get home in the evening I usually have 30 mins to 1 hour with 5 year old DD before she goes to bed.
The problem is that I arrive home still very much in work-mode, and find that I'm dealing with her like a work project; I want to hear about her day, read her stories and put her to bed, but I find that I want to do this in an organised manner, and on my terms, whereas DD, being 5, obviously wants to follow her own agenda and do things differently, happily being side-tracked, prevaricating, playing with toys instead of doing her teeth etc, which is all clearly normal 5 year old behaviour.
I'm conscious that I'm not a particularly patient person, and do try to work on this. But when I'm shattered after a frazzling day, I find this very difficult, and start getting snippety.
Help! I want us to enjoy the time we spend together in the evenings more; does anyone have any tips for de-stressing after work and changing pace so we can have a more relaxed and happy time together?
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Any tips for de-stressing and slowing to a child's pace after a day at work?
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IsabellaMilborne · 06/09/2013 09:57
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