I could cry right now.
My daughter turns 4 tomorrow. Sh is having a party at home. Invites went out - 12 children invited. 2 come back as not available straight away. Everyone else confirmed attendance about 10 days ago.
On Wednesday 4 suddenly can't make it anymore. These 4 are family members (cousins etc) who to be fair do have a bit of a trek over her (1.5hr drive each way) so I do understand. Wish they hadn't left it so late to decide, but anyway. I'm disappointed. DD is disappointed. But I get it. It's ok.
This morning I get some texts. 2 more children can't come. Ok. 4 guests. That's ok. That's still 5 kids. That's fine for a 4 yr old.
Just now I have recived a facebook message (of all things!!) from my friend to say her 2 daughters (my son's absolute best buddies) have been naughty going to bed and so as punishment they are no longer coming to the party!
:( I am so upset for DD. And pissed off with friend. Maybe wrongly. But this punishment is shit IMO. My daughter will wake up all excited only for me to have to tell her even more people aren't coming.
What shall I do??? Is it too late to knock on neighbours doors and beg their kids to come?? Is that poor form? Just feeling crap about it.
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birthbearboo · 19/07/2013 21:14
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