Hi.
I am a married new 30 something mum of a lovely 12 week old DD.
My life before baby was pretty busy with work, and generally running around other people, namely my dad who had been seriously ill with leukaemia.
My dad passed away when my baby was 15 days old. Between me and my mum we had brought him home from hospital when we realised his time was coming we cared for him.
My husband works full time but as he doesn't drive it takes him an hour to get to and from work, so he's out for 12 hours a day 5 days a week.
My mum works full time too. I have no brothers or sisters and my husband and I are estranged from his family.
I have friends scattered about the country, no real close friends near by.
My problem is I'm feeling increasingly lonely at home all day with the baby. Come 7pm when hubby comes home and mum comes round for dinner, I'm relieved. Same at the weekends when I can do something other than go for a walk to the shops.
I miss my dad, and sad that he's not around to see my DD and to see me as a mummy.
Did anyone else feel the same?
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glossyflower · 16/07/2013 14:22
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