A few days ago DDs were eating breakfast, DD1 said "mummy look what DD2's just done" and pointed to the salt pot which had been knocked over and spilt a bit. DD2 (4) looked a bit surprised and said she hadn't knocked it. I questioned DD1 and she admitted she had knocked it over. I told her that lying was really really bad and she must never ever do it again. She looked suitably contrite.
Then yesterday DH saw her kick DD2 across the room. He went over and she said DD1 had asked her to kick her(!) Again DD2 looked a bit (genuinely) surprised and said she hadn't. He asked her again and she admitted she was lying.
It's never over anything very important (she's a good girl so doesn't really tend to do really bad things) but I'm worried she might make a habit of lying. I imagine she's going through a learning phase where she's realising that she can lie to us (or teachers probably) and we may not always find out.
I don't want to overreact as I kind of want her to think we always know the truth, and if we go mad every time we know, but then miss one she might think we don't know everything iyswim?! Any thoughts (or reassurance she'll stop soon) would be great, thanks :o)
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DD (5) lying - what to do about it?
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plipplops · 20/05/2013 22:18
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