Hello
I really need some help on how to deal with my 2yo.
He is a handful, always has been, and I think always will be.
I have recently had a baby, she is 14wks old and I understand this will have had an impact on his behaviour but I need help on how to deal with it.
His temper tantrums have become very aggressive, for example, yesterday he was charging around the house, i stopped him, came down to his level and asked him to stop running round, he smacked me full in in the face!
I marched him upstairs and told him it was very naughty and not to do that, he just went mental, hitting me, hitting himself, trying to head-but me!!
I walked away from the situation (for both our sakes) and made him stay in his room. After he (and me) had calmed down I brought him downstairs and spoke to him about it, he had tea, bath and bed with no books
Today I took DS and DD to a lovely park, he loved it, but then started throwing bark at a little boy, i asked him to stop and I got another wollop in the face follows by attempted head butting ect, I marched him straight home and he is in his room again.
This is not an isolated incident, he has always hit, but it seemed to be getting better, he doesn't listen to a word I say, he runs off from me in public places, apart from being naughty it's very dangerous. I've stopped going to play groups, play centres, play dates as I just live in fear of his naughty behaviour!
Sorry this is long an garbled I'm just so upset that my lovely little boy seems to be turning into a bit of a monster!
I love him so much and it breaks my heart to think he feels pushed out due to dds arrival, but if anything I've made more of a conscious effort to spend every spare minute with him playing with him, including him with nappy changes, feeding ect
Please tell me how to deal with this and make things better
I've done naughty step, reward charts ect ect ect
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Please, please help me control my 2yo
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lollipoppi · 30/04/2013 16:59
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