DD has been incontinent for nearly 2 years. We've been to hospital, GP, HV and nothing is working. She soils and wets everyday and today I just lost it. I feel so awful but she came out of school again today filthy, wet and smelly. She had pads to help her keep mess to a minimum but hasn't bothered to change them making everything much worse. I have yelled at her, told her she is horrid and hosed her down in the bath before yelling at her again. She is supposed to be going off to see a friend and I have told her she can't, but feel rotten as I know the incontinence is not her fault. I'm just so fed up with dirty pants and wet clothes. We have gone through a supermarkets worth of pants over the last 3 years. I'm also 6 months pregnant which probably isn't helping.
So where do we go from her. I feel like I'm never going to be able to cope with DD and a newborn. I'm just so rubbish and want to just crawl into bed and weep.
We have a hospital appointment in 2 weeks but that seems like a lifetime away.
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Lost the plot with incontinent DD, so ashamed
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soupmaker · 26/04/2013 15:33
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