My DS is nearly 3 weeks old and has already got himself into a routine of feeding every 3 hours at night and pretty much sleeps 9pm til 8am each night only stirring to eat but during the day he is awake for 4 hours solid, sleeps for 4 hours then awake for 4 hours, this is fine as he's not crying only slightly whingey towards the end of the 4 hours, it's just that every book and website says newborns wont stay awake for more than 45mins at a time and also encourages 3 hour cycles of eat sleep play if you want to get them to sleep through the night later on, does this matter? Should I be manipulating his routine? How do you do that? I find it impossible to wake him when he's out cold or to get him to sleep during a 4 hour awake window, he just does it when he's ready!
I've got a good 2-3 hour window at the middle of the day when DD2 (5 weeks) won't sleep - she just wants to sit and look around at the world. It's followed by a feed and then a huge long zonk out time from about 2pm to almost 6pm.
Unfortunately this window directly coincides with DD1's lovely long nap time - grrrr!
In fairness he's got himself into a routine from only about a week old just a very odd one for a newborn! But not complaining as sleeps well at night, just stirring for feeds but being awake for 4, even 5 hours at a time seems crazy but he seems happy enough, so we're going with it!