I am feeling very down about how to move forward- I have forbidden a schooling to another country on the other side of the world, without either parent because it is impacting on my childs emotional wellbeing and stability. The father is arguing that he cant be her father unless he has this right to influence her education, and is threatening not being her father at all. I KNOW it is emotional blackmail, and am standing by my descision, however, he is blaming me for her emotional probs (yes, of cousre, some of it!) and seems to be intent on stamping on sensitive emotional ground of mine. My child lives with me, and I work part-time to support us. I also work hard to support her education for her father's language.
TBH, I am upset that he cannot contribute to her daily life, without some kind of fight for her to be studying etc. I dont like being around him, as he has bullying tacticts, and of course i get angry.
He has just said to me it is ALL MY Fault that she needs counselling.
I have recommended to the counselling body that he needs to be involved. He is like a child when it comes to all this, and money seems to be the only thing he cares about...obviously, I cannot compete because I am looking after our child!
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miku · 25/04/2013 13:07
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