Just wanted to share a few thoughts now my dd is turning 1...
As a first time mum I put myself under so much pressure and its only in the last few months I've relaxed and started to enjoy the role as mum. It's so lonely being a mum when your baby is small and I wish I'd accepted more help and not done it all myself. People were asking me to come visit them but I just thought I had to show a brave front. I hated maternity leave and wish I'd gone back to work earlier as now I feel more human with a working-mothering balance.
Newborns is very hard and stressful especially if you don't really know what your doing and although I didn't have pnd I remember breaking down in a room of people. - 2hr feeds, taking a massive bag out everywhere, working your day around naps and the constant pressure to make friends at these intimidating mother and toddler groups
Can't wait to have my next baby as I feel so in control now and love being a mum although I know driving will help me more.
I wonder if everyone feels like this?
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First time mum: wish I knew what I do now
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daisydee43 · 26/03/2013 09:54
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