I'm lying in bed MNing after opening some lovely cards from my dc's including one from my 13 year old in which she said her was her friend as well as a great Mum. Before the dc's got up DH was being very sweet saying similar things and I was saying that I don't feel that I deserve the title of good mum.
Mostly because I am not like my sister for example who is the ultimate Cath Kidson Mum who fusses over her dc's, does everything for them. I tend to think that my dc's should tidy their own rooms and take responsibility for getting their things ready for school etc. they are older, the youngest is 10 but I've always brought them up to be independent. The daft thing is I don't do this to make my life easier I do it because I think it's best for them. I still feel that this means I'm not a 'good Mum'. Does anyone give themselves credit for being a good mum or is self doubt a mother thing?
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NotMostPeople · 10/03/2013 10:31
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