My MIL offered to come once a week to tidy/ cook us a meal/ pick up dc from school. As DP and I both work full time, this was a lovely offer. I was dubious as we don't have the greatest relationship and was worried she'd snoop etc but thought we'd give it a go as would be really helpful.
We had 3/4 great weeks where we'd come home and she'd have hoovered etc, dinner would be made and we'd all sit down for a mean.
Gradually, the cleaning started to reduce and it was left to me to do dinner. It's got to the point now that she pretty much just uses our house as a base during day for lunch and goes to local shops etc, then we come back from work and have to make their meal and entertain them until about nine. Not only that, but they now complain that they always come to our house (they live over an hour away), even though we are now effectively having them for dinner at ours every week!
I hope I don't sound brat-ish, but what was supposed to be a help has turned into a burden. Neither I nor DP has the best relationship with his parents, generally because they always say/ offer things and then 'twist' things.
How do I (politely) say, 'thanks but no thanks'? [Hmm]
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'Help' from MIL no longer a help!
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Wiggy29 · 03/02/2013 08:21
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