Hello all -I do hope this is the correct place to post this;
My husband and I have been married for two years. We?ve lived in London for about 15 years and can?t imagine living anywhere else. Now we?re in our early thirties we are eager to start a family. None of our friends have children in London, and the friends who did have children moved out of the city. We don?t want to have to make a choice between London and children ? we want both! But how on earth do young couples in London do this?
We live in a small one bed flat in east London? we could share our room with a baby, but that would only work for a year or so. We could probably afford to buy a decent place in 10 years, but I?ll be over 40 by then. I don?t want to leave babies this late.
We both have jobs that we love, but are both on short term contracts. Because of the nature of our industry, we will work this way for the next 5-10 years. This means I won?t get a good maternity package until I am over 40! But we have some savings and I could afford to take 6 months off work.
Then there is day care. It seems so expensive in London. How do people manage? Does baby go to a child-minder or a nursery? Are fees really more than £1200 a month? We don?t have any family here that could look after baby whilst we work, but we are lucky to have sisters, brothers and great friends who could help us out occasionally.
And then, when baby is older, there's the horror of finding a decent London school. Spending £15k a year on fees may not be an option!
So?how do people do this?!
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MsCat · 22/11/2012 11:54
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