What are your views on home-schooling?

(336 Posts)
Littleraysofsunshine Tue 09-Oct-12 16:30:38

Just out if interest

morethanpotatoprints Sun 04-Nov-12 20:31:58

amillion.

Hello, you are so nice and supporting. smile Apart from the H.ed pages its not often to hear non judgemental comments [flowers]
Our dd is 8 would be y4, we have only just sterted H.ed in sept.
We have a park completely opposite our house and she does run ocassionally, but mostly we do science there as its great for Biology and living things. Unless it is completely throwing down I try to take her most days as she does do so many indoor activities and I hate the pasty look, smile. Our eldest ds 21 has just graduated with a sports coaching/ developing/ management degree and until now has been to busy to offer much support. However, he has just changed his job and will be able to encourage her now, which may be easier for him as she worships him. grin

morethanpotatoprints Sun 04-Nov-12 20:33:00

amillion

thanks

girliefriend Sun 04-Nov-12 20:49:15

I have met a few mums recently who have decided to home ed. I can see that it has its advantages but for me the pros do not outweigh the cons. School is about a lot more than learning and the ability to mix with other children from a wide variety of backgrounds and make friends is in my mind a fundamental and essential skill.

Also my dd (age 6yo) will quite happily listen to her teacher and learn whilst at school whereas if I try and teach her anything she looks at me like I am insane and stops listening immediately grin

Lastly I guess you have to be in the privilaged position of not having to work and therefore having a supportive and well payed partner in order to be able to home ed. I'm a single parent so it would never be financially viable for me to do so.

amillionyears Sun 04-Nov-12 20:49:25

Thank you.
Your ds could be lovely for her in that regard.

morethanpotatoprints Sun 04-Nov-12 21:21:29

amillion.

Thank you.

They are very close, I think the large gap has its advantages. The poor lad has been so busy until recently and often says he misses his siblings, especially dd as they change alot during this time. He intends to take her swimming and do time trials and ball skills with her. It will give me chance to catch up with some housework as I find this is a down side to H.ed. Or could be an advantage depending on your attitude to housework smile

morethanpotatoprints Sun 04-Nov-12 21:29:11

girlifriend.

We have found no difference in the social skills you mention, as dd does exactly as she did before, and has both H.ed and schooled friends.
I also worried about my/her ability to be able to work together, but no problems there yet shock it was my biggest fear as she can be stubborn smile
Finally, I don't work but know of many who do. Although I don't for one minute think it would be easy.
I think anybody who felt they needed to H.ed would find a way and have the necessary skills to do this as they would be doing it for their dc. I don't think its for everybody though.

chelle792 Wed 24-Jul-13 13:20:20

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exoticfruits Wed 24-Jul-13 13:27:33

I think that you are supposed to start your own thread- not take one that is 9 months old. I haven't taken much interest to know the rules but I think you might have to pay MN to do a survey.

csmart09 Mon 04-Nov-13 17:00:33

Hi my son turned 4 in August and started school in September. He is in the foundation year and is not getting on very well. His behaviour is bad and I have had many meetings with his teacher in the last 9 weeks complaining about him. He seems to be messing around at school as it is all new to him and I believe he is still a little young and this may cause him to not take it seriously. I have though about taking him out of school to homeschool him and wondered what other Mums though? Any advice?

middleclassdystopia Tue 05-Nov-13 20:28:09

I too think it's a bit arrogant to assume you can do better than school.

I can understand people who HE because of problems such as bullying or school refusal. I'm a sahm and would do it for mine if it was the only way.

However for all the pupils school may have let down, it's helped others. School was my saviour. I had abusive parents but I was bright. I still remember the teachers that believed in and encouraged me, even though I had tough patches playing up etc.

cory Wed 06-Nov-13 09:27:20

I think it can work very well when both parent and child want it. But can be disastrous if it is enforced by one side only, or enforced by circumstances beyond the control of either.

Dd has had to do a lot of her education at home for medical reasons. She didn't want to be HE'ed, I did not want to be HE'ing. She missed her school, her teachers and her friends, I missed the job I love doing. She made it quite clear that she considered me a poor substitute for what she was missing, and while I hope I was more tactful- I did still miss my other life. Not a happy situation. She is now back in fulltime education and I am back doing what I was meant to do. Both much happier.

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