DS has just had 3 settling in mornings so far at nursery. He is 2.7. He is only planned to attend on Friday mornings (we have other childcare arrangements for the rest of the week). This is to give him independance and to get him to used to not being the centre of attention with either me or the nanny.
The first was an hour (and I left him completely alone and sat in the staff room for that time), that was fine, the second was 2 hours (again, completely alone as I came home) and that was fine. Then last Friday he went for 3.5 hours including staying for lunch. He seemed fine when I left and was engrossed in playing with a train set, so much that he didn't even say goodbye. However when I collected him at 1pm he was very tearful, swollen faced, and it was clear that he had spent a large part of the morning crying.
The nursery staff said he got upset about half an hour after I'd left and then at lunchtime when it all gets a bit noisy because all the nursery groups come together for lunch.
They said children are often like this and he'll get used to it.
Yesterday, when I was talking about today (I have wednesdays off) - he said "and we're not going to go to the nursery are we?".
So I'm now worried that when I take him to the nursery on Friday morning (its his first full morning this week) he will kick off and not want to go, or get upset when we get there.
What do I do if this happens? Do I stay and defeat the whole object of him going? Or should I be ruthless and leave him?
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What do I do if DS freaks out at going to nursery on Friday morning??
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zebedeethezebra · 05/09/2012 14:17
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