Virtually every morning the school run becomes a battle to get the children ready for school (they are YR and Y1). Every part of the process requires constant ranting from me and bickering between the two of them over the most ridiculous things. I do start by encouraging them to do things nicely but it invariably ends with me shouting at them to finish getting dressed, brush their teeth, finish their cereal, get their shoes and coats on etc, all with a backdrop of arguments over who has the most cereal, who sits where at the table, who gets into the car first - it really is ludicrous.
I have tried leaving more time to factor in the fannying around but they just extend the fannying around to fit whatever time is available. I have tried leaving less time so there is no fannying around time but then we just end up running late and I am even more stressed and shouty.
I end up sending them in to school feeling like I have nagged and shouted at them all morning and then come home and feel terrible that I have sent them off like that. I do give them a kiss and tell them I love them as they wander in but that feels a bit hollow after all the events of the morning.
Anyone got any tips to improve the situation, or any successful stress-free morning routines to share? Or is this just how it is when you have a 4 and 6 year old?
Thanks in advance to anyone who has any words of wisdom (or reassurance).
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Daily school run stress
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Oggy · 24/01/2012 09:46
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