My 2.3 dd goes to bed at around 7.00pm/7.15. She's been getting up around 8.30am/9.00am. Although at the minute she is waking in the night not necessarily havingto get up to her but quite restless. I know everyone will think I'm mad but is this too long - she doesn't have a nap in teh day and i'm letting her sleep as i think she needs it if she's having disturbed sleep durign the night. i just think by the time she's had her milk and breakfast and dressed it's 10.00am. She's goes to pre-school later in the year so should i be trying to get her into a shorter sleep cycle? Or worry about this later!!!! The other thing is she has a bottle of milk on getting up and then her breakfast. At the minute not eating much breakfast as i assume she's having it too close to her bottle if iwaited to give her breakfast it would mean not being ready till even later!!! I tried not giving her a bottle when she got up as she was getting up later but she didn't like it and when she's had the 9oz she often asks for more so not sure about reducing the amount of milk plus she's not a big drinker - will have a cup of water during the day and another 9oz milk before bed. Any suggestions?
The other thing is at mealtimes she doesn't feed herself (can but doesn't) because she has to have distraction ie a book or colouring or something. I know some people say that as long as its a positiv experience it doesn't amtter at this age but i know on House of Tiny Tearaways etc they say not to do this and just to concentrate on the eating and i do wonder whether i'm making a rod for my own back and should somehow take the bull by the horns and if she doesn't eat she doesn't eat??? I don't know!!!!
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knat · 18/01/2006 12:20
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