I am not a slut or a whore

(204 Posts)
babyicebean Tue 08-Sep-09 00:36:29

I have a pole in my lounge for exercise, it takes up less room than my airwalker or a bike.

Apparently only whore, sluts and dirty women pole dance.

OK I am not very good yet and I find it all difficult but I want to do it and the himself has no such thoughts other than where he was fitting it.Yes I would like to be able to get off the ground but it will (hopefully) happen eventually.

babyicebean Tue 08-Sep-09 00:37:30

Tho the MIL seems to think it is holding the ceiling up even though it has been explained to her she thinks I have taken up polish dancing.

lou33 Tue 08-Sep-09 00:38:29

lol @ polish dancing

pole dancing is bloody strenuous, it works your whole body, a v good work out

Flamesparrow Tue 08-Sep-09 07:55:29

MustRunMore has a pole in her lounge too

EleanoraBuntingCupcake Tue 08-Sep-09 08:01:11

weird thing to do in your living room imo

Flamesparrow Tue 08-Sep-09 08:01:50

If it is the only room with the space...

EleanoraBuntingCupcake Tue 08-Sep-09 08:02:48

ok a weird thing to do in your house.

harleyd Tue 08-Sep-09 08:05:11

well, i think its fun

lou33 Tue 08-Sep-09 08:30:09

why is it weird to do it in your house?

Flamesparrow Tue 08-Sep-09 08:30:40

weirder to do it in a club for men wink

MmeLindt Tue 08-Sep-09 08:32:07

LOL at polish dancing.

I would not want one in my living room, or in my house for that matter but each to their own.

You must have realised that you would get some comments from visitors though?

AnyFucker Tue 08-Sep-09 08:32:45

do you dance with the curtains open or closed ? grin

nickschick Tue 08-Sep-09 08:33:05

More cost effective tho flame ,'eh lol grin

mustrunmore Tue 08-Sep-09 08:34:15

I love my pole smile.
Which is in my front room. Might still be a pic on my profile.
And the kids love climbing it and swinging round on it.

Not been on it for a while though for various reasons sad

My advice (other than ignore the uneducated people that think its seedy!) is that you really have to do a bit every day, that way it does get so much easier. Also, never under estimate the power of doing ab trainiing. And practising moves on the floor at base of pole so you get the feel for it.

AnyFucker Tue 08-Sep-09 09:35:28

mustrunmore, are the knee high boots an absolute essential ?????

I think you are a little silly to have a photo like that of you on a public site, tbh

call me uneducated < holds hands up >

blah.

Pole dance if you want, don't if you don't want to.

I can't see how mustrunmore's pics are any more silly than having any pictures of yourself and your family on a public site.

It's hardly pornagraphic

This is so going to kick off hmm

<its too early for popcorn>

AnyFucker Tue 08-Sep-09 09:49:36

have had my say

each to their own, in the privacy of their on home

< walks away >

AnyFucker Tue 08-Sep-09 09:49:57

*own

<wonders if AF has a gimp mask grin>

Flamesparrow Tue 08-Sep-09 10:36:15

lol @ cost effective!

RumourOfAHurricane Tue 08-Sep-09 10:47:42

Absolutely pissing myself at AF's comments- prompting me to check out aforementioned knee high boots.

Have no issues with anyone doing whatever they want in their own house- indeed, I regularly indulge in my passion for naked tiddliwinks, well, naked save my gimp mask and I find it most liberating.

I may take a swerve on posting up a pic of my 'hobby' though..

Sorry to disappoint y'all.

Boco Tue 08-Sep-09 10:53:33

I have a pole in my bathroom. But it's more of an aid for getting out of the freestanding bath, as without it you can flounder around like a slippery seal.
I wonder if guests think I am a slut and a whore. How exciting.

EleanoraBuntingCupcake Tue 08-Sep-09 11:56:13

can we have a picture boco so we can decide if you are a slut and a whore?

itsmeolord Tue 08-Sep-09 16:21:44

fab legs mustrunmore.
<not said in manner of pervy old man in dodgy raincoat emoticon>

Don't see the problem with the pictures. You can't really see your face.

Have done pole dancing in my dim and murky past, never had room at home for a pole though. It's not slutty nor does it make you a whore.

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