I was horrified to read the latest case of the little girl killed by her parents after 2 years of abuse. I know there are similar stories every week in the papers, but I'm constantly amazed that so many cases of mistreatment go undetected for so long. In this latest case, I don't understand why at some point midwives/the GP/health visitor/friends and relatives didn't realise something was wrong and report the family before it was too late. I must admit I couldn't bring myself to read the details of the case, so there probably was some "explanation" of why this little girl wasn't rescued.
When my children were babies I took them fairly regularly to the health visitor to be weighed. This isn't compulsory, which is largely a good thing, but I can't help thinking that perhaps there should be a little more state interference in the welfare of infants if it would stop babies and children being mistreated by their carers. Apart from the checks at 9 months, 18 months and 3 years or whatever (and they're not compulsory as far as I know), there seems no safety net to detect and protect infants in abusive families. Sometimes I think if people were a little more nosey when it mattered a few more children might be saved from cruelty in the home.
Sorry this is a bit rambling, just wanted to say something about it. And yesterday I had a letter from the NSPCC asking me if I would increase my monthly contribution to them. It seem so unfair that the welfare of so many children is dependent on charity when so much government money is spent on so many other things...
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Fionn · 22/09/2002 20:15
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