Hi, I've got to have a rant, I've bit my tongue for long enough and can't keep calm anymore!
So my other half and I are expecting a baby in a few months time.
I moved up to live with my partner last year (we currently live in the West Midlands) but we have decided to move back in with my parents because of my health, financial reasons and I want to be nearer to my mum as travelling 2 hours on a train just isn't what I like doing and I don't want to be doing that once baby is here. They live 1 hour and a half away from where we and my OH's family live. Now my OH has said he is fine with moving down and personally I think as long as myself, my OH and our baby are happy then nothing else matters.
My partner had told his dad that he would be moving and recently I saw a load of text messages on my OH's phone from his dad basically slagging me off.
Some of the things he had said were,
that I was ruining the relationship
asked why we are moving before the baby is due.
My partner also told him I am poorly, I'm not going to go in to full detail as it is personal but then his dad had the cheek to say that I wasn't! Which I found hurtful and quite upsetting.
He even had the cheek to say that I hadn't even given living in the West Midlands a go, I have been here a year and the city life just doesn't appeal to me so I think I've given it my best shot! I much prefer villages like where I have grown up which my OH understands that and always said we could move back to my hometown.
From the beginning when we found out we were having a baby he has always had a few remarks to say, told us some of the baby names we liked weren't nice and even said we had to have a christening for the baby, even though I am not religious and my partner isn't bothered about having one!
I just can believe how rude some people can be! Am I getting wound up about nothing or am I being reasonable?
Sorry that this is a really long post I just really needed somewhere to vent my anger.
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Bee2016 · 07/06/2016 19:34
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