my lad and his ex! help

(5 Posts)
proudmam14 Sat 09-Apr-16 18:11:50

My boyfriend who I've been together with for 3 months has a crazy ex girlfriend that's carrying his baby... She calls him up most of the time or gets him to call her and they're on the phone in the other room for ages! I know she's still inlove with him but he doesn't see it! She does everything she can to talk to him and he doesn't see that she still loves him.. This annoys me quite a lot to be honest! Maybe he's still in love with her? They were only together a few months but he's always sticking up for her yet claims to hate her! Help

Afreshstartplease Sat 09-Apr-16 18:17:23

You must have only been with him a few months yourself

If she's having his baby she's in his life for 18 years + so either get used to it or end it with him

Arfarfanarf Sat 09-Apr-16 18:21:38

Crazy ex girlfriend? She is pregnant with his child yet youve been with him for three months? So he's gone from her to you very fast, leaving her while pregnant?
I think its not crazy to feel angry or upset.
He should also avpid being disrespectful to the mother of his child. They have to coparent for 18 years. He has to contribute emotionally and financially and in terms of his time. He needs to be a grown up.

It may be easier for you to dismiss her as the 'crazy ex' but it is hugely unfair. She will be in his life forever and you and especially him should do nothing to create drama.

He should defend her out of respect for her as his child's mother if nothing else.

AyeAmarok Sat 09-Apr-16 18:26:05

She's pregnant. With his baby. Of course they should be in contact frequently.

Flip me, you're going to struggle with the next 20 years when they're co-parenting if you can't handle them speaking now!

LilacSpunkMonkey Sat 09-Apr-16 18:30:25

Behave yourself OP.

You sound about 15.

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