Hi there, don't know if anyone would like to save my sanity but here goes...I am 48 married to a lovely man and have 2 kids (young teens). Sadly my dad died during the summer so my mother has moved in. My only requests to her was that she never tell me or my family to go to bed and that we have a happy home, we want to stay that way! My mother hated my father but wouldn't let him get a divorce, he was unwell and couldn't hold his own with her. She used to scream in his face she detested him. It was awful. Dad told me three days before he died he was finally going to leave her, I said I would help. Anyway she is nearly 80, very fit and always passive aggressive. The crunch came last night for me when my husband declined to go to the kitchen for a cup of tea because she was sat out there brooding. She has spent decades indulging in spite, unhappiness and vitriole and I am worried she is making our home toxic. Our kids avoid her because she constantly snipes at them. She even has the nerve now to go to dads grave (she must be swearing at him). I do love my mother, but she is undeniably and unbelievable snob - I means it's breathaking and really nasty. What should I do? Oh god, I pray for tolerance and wisdom every day but it's not really working.
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bkgirl · 22/12/2015 19:57
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