Hi ladies, I sometimes lurk but rarely post, however I need some help. I am really, really scared about something - to do with buying and selling a house. It's massively risky and I'm almost hyperventilating with fear. Please can someone help me with some affirmations/things I can say to try to calm myself and feel more positive about this? I am feeling constantly nauseous and my poor children aren't getting anything upbeat from me because I'm flatter than a pancake's poo. I'm sure someone will ask why don't we just walk away - well at this stage we would lose a lot of money if we did so...
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DarkBlueEyes · 30/09/2015 21:59
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elfycat ·
30/09/2015 22:26
This might be a bit corny, but it got me through a big blip in my marriage last year.
I got that 'Everything is awesome' tune from The Lego Movie as my earworm and personal theme tune. I began to believe that eventually everything would be awesome. It's not turned out too bad 
Every time I felt grim I'd sing it (out loud if I was on my own) and I had it on my phone to sing along to.
There's also something I do called Ho'oponopono google . It's a simple 4 line mantra. I do 'I’m sorry, forgive me, I love you, thank you’ where you can aim this at any negativity, internal to yourself as well as to people out and about. If you feel you are creating negativity it might help turn that around.
Have you tried rescue remedy? Some people would call it snake-oil, but a lot of people use it as a stress controller. Complementary therapy with no medicinal content (except if you get the brandy version, but there are cheaper ways of buying brandy). Take in water four times a day for the baseline dose, and as and when you need it.
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