Hello, my x husband left myself and my son just after his first birthday, and is now marrying the person he had an affair with.my child is now 3 and We managed eventually to settle on his access out of court, and he sees him every other weekend and one night in the week. This year my son has done a couple of longer stays 5 days, he says he is fine when he is there, put he would say that even if he wasn't , and when he comes back he is like a different child and takes ages to settle back into his normal self. We have no agreement in place about holidays, could anyone offer me advise on how they work holiday time? What is a normal set up, if we went to court what would be the most likely outcome? He hasn't taken him abroad yet and wants to at Christmas,and next summer, I really don't feel happy about that at all, do I have any choice in that? Please help, he is very threatening about getting what he wants all I want is the best thing for my son, he puts himself before his son in every decision he makes, and I don't have funds to argue in a court with solicitors.
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How do other people work out holiday access for fathers in divorced parents?
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Winckle123 · 30/08/2014 07:42
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