...and that I am probably being completely unreasonable.
I have an only by choice and I have no intention of having any more to the point where I have considered sterilisation. However, my DD's friends from our original baby group now have one or more siblings. Prior to the arrival of all these lovely new babies (and I do think they are gorgeous and wonderful, I'm not bitter and twisted or anything!) it was always ok to meet at each others houses and this has continued. Fair enough, but I am finding it increasingly difficult to tolerate several toddlers and babies tearing round my house causing envitable chaos. It's making me feel resentful and put upon and I feel obligated. The thing is I don't know how to get out of it without sounding like the strange mum who only wants one child so that her house doesn't get messed up. Also it is usually my house because of convienence for everyone. I'm happy fcr my DD's friends to come round and obviously do what they like to do, and my DD causes a ton of mess herself but this is just taking the biscuit. How do I get out of it without sounding like I am putting down the mums who choose bigger families?
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maenfantunique · 13/12/2008 21:46
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