I have a 2 year old boy who wasnt planned i find it hard looking after him and dont even enjoy it half the time plus have mild depression which i have had for most of my life and nothing will change me i dont think , i have never seen the point to things in life so im not a positive person but im happy sometimes when im doing what i enjoy, i just dont really enjoy feeling stressed and having to do things for another little person all the time and its honestly quite boring trying to play with my son most of the time, i know i sound like a mean selfish person and i guess its true but some ppl are not selfless fun preople im not a fun person
but i am worrying about his future happiness and whether i should try to give him a sibling , i dont really want to have to do more work with a baby being up all night again and i am to scared of how much more stressful it would be then the first time which i found so bad and really didnt want to carry on being a mum but couldnt walk away even tho i was not an still dont add a great deal to his life , but i suppose a sibling would , i just dont know if i should have another child tho for his sake, and know its selfish maybe on a new baby to bring it into my messed up family situation where my kids dad dosent live with us as i cannot live with him or sleep next to him i just dont want to, but he is a great dad tho ,
so in a way having a sibling might make up for not having the best most happiest mum as i feel sorry for my son maybe a sibling would make up for him having a rubbish mum ?
plus i worry he will be lonely he has no cousins and probably wont get any
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lazyminimoo · 01/02/2015 15:06
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