I have DS 15 months old, he has dd 2 years ds 4 years. I have always been upfront about wanting another 1 since the first time we met. 2 months ago I had a MC while taking POP. Found out allergic to progerterone and left ovary is 14.5mm while right is 7mm so a few med problems. When DS is around DSD and DSS which is about 1 a month, he loves spending time with them and having someone to play with other than just mummy or DP. He cries so much when they have to leave it breaks my heart. I really think another LO would help him have some sense of being "in" a family. Don't get me wrong I do my best for him but its not the same as having siblings, Im the eldest daughter with 3 younger brothers. DP was open to the idea of having another 1 until the MC, now he is totally anti. He wont even talk about it. His reaction the MC was "its was never a baby so why are you upset" I love him to bits but I feel like my family wont be complete until I have another baby. I only ever wanted 2 kids, is that such a bad thing? And as for finances, we can more than afford another baby.