Im 41, DD is six. I have been perfectly happy having one child, she is my everything and I have never wanted a second. Last year we even looked into me getting sterilised.
Then I turned 41 and my biological clock is ticking very loudly in my ear. I can write a huge list of reasons to have another and not many against. I have forgotten that DD slept through from two weeks, and was no trouble and you never get two the same. I have forgotten the boredom of havng a new baby that does very little and the smell of baby sick.
DH (who is 33) says no, I am too old, there are too many risks and too many age related issues. DD would love a sibling after Ive spent the last two years into brain washing her into thinking a sibling would be her worst nightmare and she would have to share her favourite teddy.
Am i just befuddled by pre menopause hormones? Will it wear off by the time I turn 42? Have I finally lost the plot? Anyone feel the same ?
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Rowgtfc72 · 23/04/2013 19:22
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