Help needed - DG1 is being bullied a nursery! (Sorry might be a long one).
From being a happy, smiley, lively child she has become withdrawn, sad and will sit hunched up sucking her thumb. This has coincided with a particular boy who, has had behavioural problems in the past, recently moving up to her room.
We have spoken once to the nursery (they acknowledge that his behaviour is not acceptable) about it but she is still saying that this child is hitting her, calling her names, etc. I don't think that she is being particularly singled out as I get the impression that this is his general behaviour. I have been told that he runs rings around his parents who have no control over him - well if they can live with that at home fine, but this is my daughter he is hurting.
Apart from this child she is happy at nursery. Has good days when he hasn't been in there but physically withdraws at the thought of going the next day. I don't see why I should have to remove her from, excepting this, a caring environment where she has lots of friends/a good time/is developing/etc. DG2 is also at the same nursery and is very happy so I don't really want to have to move them both. But what should I do about this little thug!
Advice/experience/tips needed urgently please. Have a meeting with them tomorrow to discuss but apart from requesting that he is not allowed anywhere near her don't know what to do.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Find nursery advice from other Mumsnetters on our Nursery forum.
Nurseries
help - 3yo being bullied at nursery
8 replies
lucy01 · 14/06/2005 20:42
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.