If you work and send your child to nursery, do you think they get benefits that they couldn?t get from staying at home with you and then going to pre-school later on? (Obviously the answer might be ?a roof over their head? or ?a sane mother? but aside from those things?!)
I am currently settling DD (nearly 9mnths) into nursery, starting at 2 days and building up to 5. The nursery is pretty good and the staff are experienced and caring but the more time I spend there the more I feel that it?s not the optimum environment for her, at least whilst she?s a baby. I was thinking about giving up work for a bit anyway and this is making me more convinced that?s the right path. We go out to baby groups etc every day at the moment so she is not in the house with me all day. Also, there is a very good preschool attached to our village school that she could start from 2 so we?d have the option of that structured environment once she?s ready. I?ve mentioned this to a couple of friends with older children at nursery and they?ve been very negative about it saying that their children have got so much from being at nursery 5 days a week from an early age. They were a bit vague on what those benefits were and I didn?t want to push them on it for fear of sounding as if I was questioning their decision so I thought I?d ask on here. Do you think there would be anything my DD would lose out on if I followed that plan?
Don?t mean to in any way to suggest that being a WOHM is detrimental to children, just trying to work out what to do for the best for us.
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Catz · 10/04/2008 21:07
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