DD went for her first settling-in session yesterday and I had to stay with her. The nursery staff are all lovely except one older woman I took an instant dislike to- turns out she's in charge of the baby room. It didn't help that I don't know what days I'm working yet (I'm negotiating 3 days at work instead of FT) and she got a bit funny with me, saying they'd kept a FT place for us. I can see it's annoying but she gave me my original application form to update and I'd written then TBA 2/3/5 days.....
She can't be all bad because one little boy climbed up on her lap for a cuddle and stayed there for almost the entire hour I was there.
BUT she called another baby (9 months) a thug, and although it was said in a jokey way (and I call my DD Monster) it didn't feel right in a childcare setting IYSWIM. She also seemed to be saying a lot of things to the children along the lines of "big strong boys and pretty (delicate) little girls".
Now I know that a lot of my views are totally at odds with most other peoples, and I would be very hard pressed to find anyone who shares them, so is this another area of compromise where I just have to accept that the consequence of giving my baby to someone else for long periods of time is that they do things differently?
We visited lots of nurseries and this one had the best vibe plus the children seemed happy and other people I work with have used it with no problems.
The crux of it is probably that as the time gets near I actually don't want to leave her, full stop. Short of winning the lottery or living in a tent I have no choice.
Do I say something or does it not actually matter much in the grand scheme of things?
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Are my concerns reasonable or am I being a bit precious- different views on speaking to children
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evenhope · 04/12/2007 13:11
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