Hello,
This is the first time I am writing a message on mumsnet and I really need help and advice. Sorry this message is quite long..
I am settling in my DD to nursery as I have just started back at work three days a week.
She was one last week and she will be in nursery for only 1 day a week starting this Friday (her grandmother is looking after her the other two days).
For various reasons I have only been able to have two settling in sessions so far and have one more tomorrow.
Last week I left her alone for 30 minutes and she went for a walk in the park where she cried a bit but was bot too unhappy.
Today I left her for an hour (I was with her for an hour in the room beforehand) and she cried for the whole hour I was away, proper crying, completely inconsolabe and has been quite upset since we came home.
Having read some other messages, I am now really worried that given her age and the fact that she is only going once a week, she will find being in nursery really, really hard. I am really upset about it as feels that it is all my fault that she is so sad.
I can probably ask favours from grandmothers for the next few months to avoid her having to go to nursery on Fridays, but from March she will need to be going to nursery at least two days a week.
Should I just stick with it and hope that it gets better? Or should I take her out and put her back in nursery two days a week in March / April when she is a bit older?
If I do stick with it, is there anything I can do to make the settling in easier?
I am really worried that she will just spend months crying all day and that emotionally this will harm her in future. But if I leave it until she is a few months older, won't I just have the same problems all over again?
Please help / advise.
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