My DS started nursery in August at age 3.5. When I went in to collect him I had often asked how he had been getting on and was told that he was upset at first but soon settled down and enjoyed himself.
Last week when I went to collect him one of the staff came to speak to me and told me that he had been using scissors that morning and had scratched another boy on the arm with them. When I asked how or why it had happened I was told that they only had DS's admittance to scratching the other child to go on and they asked if I would speak to him when we went home.
I should say that DS is a late talker, but when I asked him what had happened he told me that he was snipping paper, there was a bang and the boy got a hurt on his hand. He also stated the boy was sad and crying and had to have a plaster. I asked if he had made the boy hurt and he said 'by snipping' he also said that he was sorry and had told the boy to be happy.
Next morning I spoke to the staff, explained what was said etc. and was then told that actually it wasn't a scratch it was a cut, that they believed it was a deliberate but not malicous act and although DS had said sorry they didn't believe that he meant it but was just going through the motions of what was expected of him. They also stated that he would be excluded from using scissors again.
I feel really bad for the other child and am worried that perhaps this incident maybe the start of something more! but really I'm still not clear as to what actually happened as my DS is unable to explain any further. I also wondered where the staff where went it happened as apparently no one else saw anything and I wondered how they reached their conculsions about it being deliberate, not actually meaning that he was sorry and excluding him from future scissor use.
Sorry it's so long but any comments or advice would be welcome. Thanks.
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paddygirl · 01/10/2007 13:09
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