Hi, hoping someone can give me some reassurance / support!
My 6 month old ds is starting nursery 3 days a week from end of next week when I go back to work.
He's been for a practice session for a couple of hours (that's as long as I felt I could leave him) and is going for a half day this week. While he didn't cry last week he did seem a bit bewildered and quiet when I went back for him.
He does like and seem interested in my friends children and my niece and is fine when I leave him occasionally with his grandparents for a couple of hours, but its the thought of leaving him with strangers who might not even speak much too him!
The nursery seems good enough, but I think ds is the youngest in the baby room. I feel such a bad mum and worried sick that he'll think I've abandoned him and don't want him anymore.. I know this must sound really irrational, and I'm not usually like this(!)
Has anyone else had experience of putting their tots in nursery this early? Am I doing the wrong thing? Is it going to be psychologially damaging for him.. I keep reading stuff that says its not good for babies this young to be in childcare (and certainly not nursery!)but I've no other option at the moment. DH is trying to be supportive but doesn't really seem to understand. Are all men like this?!
I think I need to hear some success stories if you know what I mean, how others have coped, how your babies have coped or even just a bit of moral support as I'm feeling really down about it.
Sorry this is so long and rambly xx
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columbolover · 14/08/2007 21:55
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