Hi there, first time posting but not new here some very helpful items/discussions on mums net. Thank you all.
**To the point, key worker rang me explained child has been sick at lunch time when she took her first bite of lunch followed by cucumber. Cucumber doesn't go down well with her, She threw it back out. Key worker tells me kiddo got a bug and it may be a good idea to collect her. I reply I'm out of town, working I will arrange collection however it will be tough today (no problems in the past 6 months I've always collected). I query what happened, what did she throw up, was it clear liquid, was it food she just ate, was there blood. She did not know. How does she look does she appear well before and after. Yes no problems, no temp, not tachy, good work of breathing and complexion. With regard to collection, key worker told me off the record personally that a safe guarding will be the norm if the child cannot be collected. She also explained she will not do one. Is this true? I asked to speak to another member of staff as I did not take a liking to her personal, impartial comment/advice.
She done one anyway I didn't sign it I wrote on it that the nursery are well aware of my kids eating habits. She replied she didn't know this when I explained on the telephone call. Are you not my child's key worker? What she was safe guarding for was not explained very well in fact key worker was not there up on collection. I did pick up my kid at her normal finishing time.
What are your thoughts on this?
Should I do more?
Where can I find up to date safeguarding policies for children in this context?
I've made a written account of what had happened, inc details of other relevant issues I've noticed for instance staff appearing unwell, sleeping in the reception area after taking pain relief however I'm not going to hand this in I simple want to stand my ground should I need to.
More detail... my child is 20months old, she's been appointed a new key worker for a couple of months now. This key worker has called us numerous times to collect my child and each time I go, she's fit and well, not ticking any infection markers, I don't have any concerns and the key worker will state she's ok now with a reason for her call. I've got a good support network picking her up is never an issue but it seems as though the key worker is very focused on diagnosing my child is V & D.
I've made it clear to the nursery staff that my kiddo needs food introduced slowly at the start of a meal, she will gag upon sight of food and possibly the first bite. Never the less she will finish her food. If a large portion is given she will spit it back out, a small tendency of throwing up once a month at home and once a fortnight at nursery since the new key worker has taken over. This is something we are working on at home.
On 3 occasions since the new key worker has taken over I have brought kiddo home and not returned for a day or two. Once being due to vomit and twice due to temperature being high 37. Temp constantly sought after and taken at inappropriate times whilst her coat is on and she's just had a run around jump hop twirl dance and a dive onto the floor. Inconsistent temperature readings some of which at 37.0 but they will call me and tell me her head is one thing and her body is something else. Take a layer off right? Anyways we take her home no commotion no hoo haa don't want them treating my kid any less I know they are tired and over worked loads of kids to look after.
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K1Dx · 10/11/2016 19:20
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