Hi, I live outside the UK where luckily the nursery cost is pretty cheap. My 20 month old twins are currently looked after by their granny and a student friend of a friend at home and are really happy. I have booked nursery places for them to start in March, just before they turn two as its the same cost as having the 'nanny' student and I thought they could do with the social side as well as the stimulation - here all kids go to nursery so the parks are completely empty during the day and they get very little contact with other toddlers.
The problem is one of my toddlers is quite an anxious, clingy boy who cries and clings even at the smallest sound another child makes. Im really worried about how traumatic it will be for him but there is the other train of thought that after the initial period it will bring him out of himself and get more used to other young children.
The nursery said I can sit with him a couple of afternoons a week for a couple of months before they start which is lovely of them so I also feel bad at dumping the nursery in it as we have now taken up two places for this year (again, how it works here).
I realise I am in a lucky position so dont bemoan that but was wondering about not sending them to nursery at all and staying with the student and granny. Or should we try it at least? A lot of people say how much they love nursery for their kids so I do realise I could be pleasantly surprised!
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Should I Send shy, clingy two year old to nursery?
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mummytogorgeousness · 15/12/2015 21:11
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