First post!...My Daughter is 17m old and she has just had her first 2 settling in sessions at nursery. The initial viewing of the nursery (I did this twice) lasted around 2 hours each and it all seemed great. The staff were lovely and my DD was running around and playing on her own with no issue - playing with other kids and babbling away to the staff. However the settling in sessions were a very different story.
1 - I was told during the viewings that they would see whom she warms to and then the key worker would be assigned - however on the first SIS I was told who her key worker was as there had been a few children move around - I was surprised at this but did not question it.
2 - The feel of the rooms were entirely different to when I visited initially - much less action and the workers seemed a lot less interested (not saying it was bad - just a very different experience to what was portrayed at the viewings)
3 - DD became very upset on the 2nd SIS whilst I was out of the room - I stayed for as long as I could but then had to go in to settle her. She was then fine and I left again only to hear her screaming - I decided to leave her (slightly heart breaking to listen to) and then one of the staff came into the office and said she had been sick. I came in to find her standing in the middle of the room screaming, trying to catch her breath, with one of the staff near her but not really comforting her, she was still vomiting so I picked her up immediately. The other staff member disappeared and her key worker seemed more focused on cleaning the vomit than helping me settle her. I was then shown where to change her and no one came with me however after a few minutes one of the managers came in - but again did not seem too bothered even though DD was still very upset.
4 - After I managed to calm her down we went outside where there must have been at least 20 children of all ages playing with 3 workers watching them from what I could see - at one point the chef came outside and 2 of the workers went to speak to her leaving just one staff member looking over the entire group.
After this I decided to call it a day as had been there for roughly an hour.
I feel that there was a vast difference from what was portrayed at the viewings to what the days would actually be like (maybe this is why they make appointments, as other nurseries seem to let you turn up anytime) and am now seriously doubting whether this nursery is the right one. I understand it's a huge change for DD going to nursery but this just did not feel right..
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dadtotherescue · 15/07/2015 23:42
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