DS, almost 3yo, started nursery a few weeks ago. He has been looked after by a nanny and by me up to this point. Last week he started pushing the other children. Today I've been told he's hitting too. Hand on my heart I have only ever seen him push another child once, but he's boisterous, energetic, and a handful so I can imagine that he would be capable of it.
I've asked his key worker what steps are taken to correct his behaviour when he hits and pushes, and the answer is that they talk to him. That's all. No time out 'because it would be inappropriate in this setting', no telling off, no punishment.
So what I want to know is, is a time out now seen as a bad thing? I know my DS and I don't think that talking to him alone is going to have any effect. Plus, it's totally different from what happens at home: here if he does something naughty there are immediate consequences.
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strangechild · 15/09/2014 14:17
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