Hi, I would really appreciate some advice on childcare. My LO goes to a day nursery three days a week and has been attending since mid April. He's 14mths. I have had a few concerns when picking him up and a few weeks ago, even went to look round a couple of different nurseries. I then decided that moving him was too disruptive and that I was just overreacting. I wondered if anyone could help - am I being too fussy?
There has on occasion been times when I've picked him up and not realised until we were in the car or home that he had a dirty nappy - I had assumed he must have done it just recently but sometimes it has been stuck to him (although this may be the car seat). He has a few times come home/I've gone in to pick him up and he's been sucking on someone else's dummy. Depending on the member of staff, sometimes I get an apology, othertimes they just shrug it off. To avoid making a scene, I usually make out that I think he must have nabbed it off another kid - which he probably did! So this could be why I don't always get an apology. I have asked for the dummy to only be used at nap times as I'm trying to (very slowly!) wean him off it, but I keep finding he has it at pick up. (Maybe I just need to remind them...)
There was a few issues with staffing when he first started (one planned leaver and one unplanned!), but he has settled well despite this and has formed a good bond with the staff in the baby room. Obviously other staff from other rooms come in to allow them to take breaks, but I have found a few times that not one of the baby room staff are in the baby room. I would have thought they would take it in turns so that one baby room staff would always be there - for continuity for the babies. It doesn't appear to bother my little boy, mind. He has always been happily playing when I've gone to pick him up. I really like the baby room staff and I think his key worker is lovely with him, but some of the other staff seem a bit moody and never smile... They always greet us/me but they don't seem particularly happy to work there. I think at times they have been understaffed and so I have just thought that must be why, but now they are back up to full capacity, they still don't seem to enjoy their job...
He fell over and bashed his nose and under his eye a couple of weeks back, on the fence post surrounding the baby area. I would have thought they would have rung me but my hubby reckons they'd only do that if it was serious. I know that these things happen but I would have thought they would have had someone near by - maybe that wouldn't have changed anything... he's always falling over on my watch!
The main reason I was going to move him was because he was getting very upset on the commute as it is near my work, however after changing him to a forward facing car seat he is much happier.
He eats well there and they tell me he is doing great. When he's a bit under the weather, he can be a bit clingy to them but that at least shows there is a bond, right?
There has been occasions when I've picked up that one or two of the babies have been crying and no one seems to be doing anything about it, for example picking them up. I did wonder why and the next day, they commented that she gets upset when someone else gets picked up and its not her mummy.
The other thing that concerns me is they are ofsted rated 3. Now we knew this when we signed up, but they were last inspected four years ago, so I'm sure it'll have changed and they are due an inspection. Working in a school myself I know it is easy to miss out on the higher grades just by little things/paperwork not being in place. Reading the report seemed to highlight little things that they needed to change but nothing major, and we were happy with the facilities, especially the sensory room and massive garden.
Gosh I've rambled... sorry...
What I'm trying to say is I have a gut feeling that I can't shake off for more than a couple of weeks, before something else happens/I see something that makes me worry again. Should I move him and cause all that disruption just for these minor things? And risk that the new place won't be any better? (Perhaps this is the norm...) Am I being overprotective/too fussy? (My hubby certainly thinks so!)
Any advice will be greatfully received. TIA.
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cherryblossom84 · 17/07/2014 23:45
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