I took my dd in to her nursery for her first visit yesterday for 90 mins and then again today. I go back to work next week and she will be there every other day. It was just awful. Two girls in a room with six babies/toddlers. There seemed to be no activities, just holding clingy, crying babies and leaving others (also crying) to fend for themselves - and that is in front of a parent. My dd is 15 months, been walking for 5 months, says about 30 words and is v keen on going outside, opening things, generally exploring. The other babies she will be with can't walk, can't speak, so I asked if she could move up and apparently she can in November. That leaves two months plus of this situation.
I decided on a nursery setting as I thought she was bored by just me and that nursery would provide a more structured set of activities, as well as a bit of socialisation.
Do I have unreasonable expectations here? What would you expect to see in a 90 min visit in a room for 12-18 month olds? And I am aware my being there may have made them behave differently, but I was pretty shocked by how bad it was. When she screamed because I was leaving, they made extremely half hearted attempts to soothe her, no concerted effort at distraction at all. Am I expecting too much?
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Slavetominidictator · 30/08/2013 12:58
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