Hi, I'm new on here and really need some advice.
My 13 year old daughter is going threw a pretty rough time. She used to have a group of friends that she was very close to, few weeks ago two of these friends had a argument and one said some very hurtful things to the other, my daughter defended her friend (this is a girl my d has been friends with since nursery). The group ended up divided with friend 1 saying she'd never speak to friend 2 again. My d and friend 1 went on a trip to Spain with the school and everything was fine. However the 3 girls are in all the same classes at school and once back from Spain friend 1 has made up with friend 2 which is great or would have been if they hadn't started to exclude my d! They broke up from school Wednesday gone and friend 1 spent the following 2 days with my d. Over the weekend my d arranged to meet up with a friend from school and invited friend 1 along. Now however friend 1 has totally blew her out in favour of friend 2 who isn't speaking to my d. My d can't understand why she'd do this after she defended her against friend 2. Last night it came to light that friend 2 has been making group chats up on social media for the sole purpose of calling my d and friend 1 has been joining in. This morning I checked my d phone whilst she was asleep and say text messages to a girl my daughter speaks to online ( this girl is from Norway) my daughter has told her that she's hurting so much and can't take it anymore, there's a photo of my d with tears running down her face which she must have taken last night.
I feel so helpless! Even before the 6 weeks hols started I asked my d if she thought moving schools might be an idea as she's been getting bitched at from other girls who friend 2 is now friends with!
My d is not the type for tears, she's usually very outgoing and confident (she's a 2nd Dan black belt in karate)
I really don't know where to go from here! She's supposed to be going away in Aug with friend 1 and her family but was told last night that friend 2 is going instead.
Any advice would be extremely appreciated.
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user1469518055 · 26/07/2016 11:49
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