Not sure what to do at this point

(4 Posts)
Lalaland123 Mon 27-Jun-16 18:32:09

Hello,
My name is Ashley and I am new to this form. I am 29 years old. I just found out yesterday that I am pregnant. In a 7 min span I was nervous but then became happy I was pregnant. When I told my boyfriend he had no emotion really towards what was happening. All he did was hug me and say "we will figure out what to do after you go to the doctor and see if you really are pregnant" after taking 3 tests I'm pretty sure I don't need a doctor telling me I am. well later that night I asked him what he was leaning towards and he said abortion. That really upset me, but he is right. I just got a job that doesn't make much and he has a job that can barely afford the both of us. I don't want to have a child with a man who is not excited about him or her or that I can't afford... But I kind of want this. It just doesn't seem practical right now I guess? I can't help but feel I will not like him anymore if I get an abortion or if we have the child we will spilt up. Our relationship isn't the best, but we make it work. Has anyone been in this situation? Does anyone have good advice?

EmpressOfTheSevenOceans Mon 27-Jun-16 18:40:00

Hi Ashley

I don't have any advice on your situation, I'm afraid, but I do recommend that you start a fresh thread in www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships, where more people who know about these things are likely to see your post.

Good luck.

Lalaland123 Mon 27-Jun-16 18:50:21

Thank you!

Borrego123 Wed 20-Jul-16 21:18:28

Hi
My name is Hannah and i am a mum to a nearly 9 year old and i have recently told.my parents that i am pregnant again and when i told my mum and dad they are threatening to kick me out and now i dont know what to do
Can anyone help

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