confused at what i should do

[concernedparent2016]

ok so i want to try and narrow this down so not to bore you all with the irrelevant details

i got a phone call today from social services advising that my sons father has attempted to commit suicide twice this information came in from someone who is concerned with the safety of my child we currently have a court order in place which states he is to stay with his father every fortnight however social services have advised me that i would be justified in breaching this order for the safety of my son until he proves he is fit to look after him

previously (march 16) we had gone to court over him trying to steal my son the result ended with a court order in my favour which means he now spends less time with his dad (from every weekend to fortnightly)

i dont want to sit here and slag the man off but unfortunately he has not proven to be such a great role model there has been constant violence (verbal/physical) from him to me as far as i am aware nothing has been towards my son.

im now stuck in a catch 22 position i really do not want to stop my son from seeing his father but i don't know what else to do.

i just need to add that my son has been having odd behaviour everytime he comes home from his dads i do not know what goes on in that house but even his teachers have said it is affecting him please help

[GigiB]

how old is your son? I wouldn't let young children go. If he's sensible and a bit older then if he had a phone and could contact me i'd consider it depending on what you mean by violence (you mention above...)