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Bit aof a vent about univited groping

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By Sat 22-Aug-09 17:49:22 Add message | Report | Contact poster

DH has a habit of groping me when i dont have a bra on.. he 'tickles' my nipples and it really irritates me.. and i don't just mean it annoys me sort of irritates, i mean its 'so irrationally angered by it, i'm going to rip your hand off and shove it up your arse' kind of irritated.

I cant even put into the words the sheer RAGE i feel when he does it.

I tried telling him nicely a while ago not to do it and explained if i'm not aroused then having my nipples touched makes me really angry and i thought he understood, but he's started doing it again and gets upset when i slap his hand away and says "What"

I swear the next time he does it i'm going to verbally rip his head off.

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Thu 15-Oct-09 15:58:08

this is funny...

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Tue 01-Sep-09 08:31:08

Sorry I have not read the entire thread it was just seeing the words dower house got me thinking about the talk I gave and so on.

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Tue 01-Sep-09 08:23:21

Forgive me if I remain sceptical "retiredlady" - welcome to MN, I see you are new.

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Tue 01-Sep-09 08:15:24

I am going to show my age here. A couple of generations ago almost everyone living in the countryside would know about the reason for the dower house and would also know two or three in the area they lived. I imagine that people in towns would not share this knowledge because I don't think that dower houses were an urban feature.

Now there is so much more mobility you might think that more people would know about this surprisingly enlightened idea but I remember giving a talk on local history in the village hall and almost nobody knew about the concept behind the name dower house although there was one less than a mile away.

Here endeth the lesson.

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Tue 01-Sep-09 06:07:50

Carrie: Did you hear that guy with the crappy fake poly blog has self-published a book? What makes them think being a writer is oh so simple?

Miranda: Gawd, I know... What a loser. He managed to sell 2 copies. He couldn't help himself and his mother bought the other one.

Samantha: Well, tbh he wouldn't know what a multiple partner was even if it fucked him senseless with the car keys bowl wink

Charlotte: Oh you guys! Come on... Being sexually frustrated is not easy. I should know, I swapped religions just so I could get a better fuck.

Mr Big: Whateva. Did someone mention sex?

grin

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Sun 30-Aug-09 19:41:11

I often wonder what he'd think if he looked through the internet history. The amount of dodgy stuff I've followed links to from here, he'd probably wonder what on earth I was up to.

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Sun 30-Aug-09 19:06:28

Be careful Reality, your DP might start thinking you're interested in giving it a try. grin

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Sun 30-Aug-09 18:54:20

That just makes it all the more bullshitty. I mean, SGB had come on here once and said the sister thing and poly aren't kosher,and I know I believer her over all these trolls.

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Sun 30-Aug-09 18:47:56

Funnily enough, not a single one, no.

They're quite a lovely bunch and made me feel very welcome.

So Extended, you great loon, actually you've opened at least one person's eyes to the very interesting world of polyamory, and haven't at all coloured how I feel about it. <raspberries>

Add message | Report | Contact poster By Sun 30-Aug-09 18:41:30

Any twin sisters with co-husbands living on large estates complete with Dower Houses, Reality?

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Bit aof a vent about univited groping